By Zinhle Cele | In partnership with Missing Person South Africa
💔 “We just want her to come home” – A Mother’s Plea Echoes Weeks After Mishaadien Stemmet Went Missing

It’s been over three weeks since 19-year-old Mishaadien Stemmet walked out of her home in Old Woodlands, Mitchell’s Plain, and disappeared without a trace. Despite over 4,500 shares of her missing person alert on social media, the silence that followed has left her family broken, her community restless, and South Africa grappling with the unsettling truth: young women are still going missing in broad daylight—and few answers ever come.
🕰️ What Happened to Mishaadien? A Timeline of Events
On the morning of 7 May 2025, Mishaadien was last seen by family members at her home at 41 Orpheus Crescent. She was dressed in a white long-sleeved top, denim skirt, and Crocs. According to her family, there was nothing unusual about her behavior that day.
“She was just her normal self—chatting, smiling. We never imagined that would be the last time we’d see her,” recalls her aunt, Rushana, who has since joined the family’s relentless search.
When she failed to return that evening, panic set in. Calls went unanswered. Texts remained unread. The family reported her missing immediately—but days turned into weeks with no clue of her whereabouts.
📢 The Power—and Limits—of Social Media
The Facebook post from Missing Person South Africa ignited a wave of digital support. Within hours, people across the country began sharing the alert. Thousands of shares poured in, turning Mishaadien’s image into a symbol of hope—but also of heartache.
“It gives us strength to know people care,” says her mother, Shamielah, through tears. “But it’s also painful… because still, nothing.”
Despite the virality, no credible tips or sightings have been confirmed. It has left many asking: How can someone disappear so completely in a connected world?
📊 A Broader Crisis: Women and Girls Still Go Missing in South Africa
Mishaadien’s disappearance is not an isolated incident. According to SAPS data and NGO reports, dozens of women and girls go missing each month in South Africa. In areas like Mitchell’s Plain, which already struggles with gang activity, poverty, and high youth vulnerability, the problem is even more acute.
Community activist Farieda Jacobs, who runs a local safety watch, explains:
“We’re failing our daughters. Whether they go missing by choice or force, we need better systems, quicker responses, and stronger support for families.”
❤️ A Community Still Hoping, Still Searching
The Stemmet family is not giving up. Posters line the streets, local WhatsApp groups are constantly abuzz with updates, and even the local mosques have offered prayers for her safe return.
Sniper, a close family friend who has been coordinating the search, says:
“We check hospitals, police stations, shelters—every day. We won’t stop until we find her or know the truth.”
🔍 What We Can All Learn: The Importance of Awareness, Safety & Community Vigilance
Mishaadien’s case reminds us that personal safety and community alertness are not just buzzwords—they’re lifelines. Here are a few practical steps you and your loved ones can take:
✅ Safety Tips for Teens and Adults:
- Always inform a trusted person of your whereabouts and plans.
- Avoid walking alone, especially at night or in isolated areas.
- Install tracking apps (like Life360) with your family or guardians.
- Don’t ignore your gut instinct—if something feels wrong, it probably is.
- Teach young people the signs of grooming or manipulation online and offline.
✅ For Families and Communities:
- Share information quickly if someone goes missing—time is crucial.
- Use verified platforms like Missing Person South Africa for alerts.
- Start neighborhood watch groups or join existing ones.
- Report all suspicious behavior, no matter how small it seems.
💬 Let’s Talk: Have You Seen Mishaadien or Experienced Something Similar?
Have you, your family, or your community ever faced a similar situation?
What more can authorities or society do to protect our young people?
We invite you to share your thoughts, prayers, or advice in the comments.
Your voice matters. Your story could help someone else. Your share could bring Mishaadien home.
📞 If You Have ANY Information
Please contact:
- Sniper: 083 253 8614
- Rushana: 083 823 7886
- Shamielah (Mother): 062 912 2389
🙏 Let’s Not Let This Case Go Cold
This isn’t just about a missing teenager. It’s about every girl who walks out the door and never comes back. It’s about every parent who cries themselves to sleep. Let’s not scroll past Mishaadien’s story. Let’s keep her name alive, keep her photo circulating, and keep asking questions—until we get answers.
📲 Share this article. Keep her face on your timeline. And please—stay alert, stay safe, and stay connected.
📝 Published by Pajoni News | In partnership with Missing Person South Africa
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